I can't last more than a minute in bed with my beautiful wife
I find her irresistible and we have sex three or more times a week.
The trouble is I cannot last long. I’d say sex lasts less than a minute, then it’s all over for me.
I exercise regularly and eat a healthy diet but sex is still over in no time.
I am only 34 and my wife is 33. She is always up for sex and never complains but I am sure she must feel let down.
If I can’t be a better lover, I worry that she will look for someone else. Surely at my age I should be able to do better than this?
I feel useless and a failure.
DEIDRE SAYS: Your wife’s sexual enjoyment and satisfaction doesn’t depend on how long you can last before you climax.
It is a matter of how you touch and caress her in the right places and in the right way for her.
My e-leaflet Want To Last Longer? explains self-help sex therapy.
When you stop feeling anxious things are likely to improve anyway.
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