Man asks me to spy on my husband and catch him having affair — who should I believe?
I have been happily married for 12 years and have two lovely daughters of eight and seven. I am 37 and my husband is 39.
This other couple are a similar age. We aren’t close friends but talk now and then.
The husband told me he had received an anonymous phone call about his wife’s affair with my husband. He says his wife has been hiding her phone and acting suspiciously. He found condoms in her car and said there have been four occasions when he found hotel receipts in her bag at times when she was meant to be visiting her sister.
I checked my diary and, on four occasions, my husband was with me and our children. I have looked at his web history, his contacts and messages – and there is nothing suspicious.
But this man won’t leave me alone and keeps asking me to help him set a trap for them. I trust my husband totally. But am I being naive? Should I talk to him about it?
DEIDRE SAYS: Hang on to the fact there is absolutely no evidence that your husband is having an affair.
Maybe this man’s wife is cheating on him but it’s clearly not with your husband. For your sake and your children’s, focus on your marriage and don’t let this mischief-maker cause trouble between you and your husband.
Best tell your husband, so he can reassure you but also because you will involuntarily be giving off stress signals he may be misreading.
Together, tell this other man he must stop making these allegations about your husband. If he truly suspects his wife of cheating, he must confront her about it.
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