I am 17, he is 37 and used to go out with my friend.

I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year. He is also 17.

The cheating began with messaging and exchanging pictures. We always had lots to say to one another.

Then it became sexual.

I don’t know why I am doing this.

I love my boyfriend and don’t want to lose him.

I never thought I would become a cheat.

I feel guilty because I have to lie when my boyfriend wants to see me and I have arranged to see my older lover.

DEIDRE SAYS: Maybe it was flattering at first but if you don’t want to lose your boyfriend, break with this older guy.

He is very unlikely to be taking your relationship seriously and may well be simply using you.

Block him on your phone and social media to spare yourself further temptation.


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