DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex says he has realised he really wants to be with me even though he pushes me away.

I am 18 and I met him last year. He’s 19 and in the Army.

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I fell in love with him and he broke my heart when he ended it.

 I have since met a lovely guy who is 21 and shows his feelings far more than my ex ever did.

We have had a few dates and just kissed.

But my ex has got back in touch. We met and he said he did now want me.

I like the new guy in my life but I have never got over my ex.

I don’t know what choice to make.

DEIDRE SAYS: Chances are your ex had an emotionally cold childhood which taught him to hide his feelings, so he pushes you away even though he wants you.

But you can’t change your ex and he may not find it easy to change himself.

Now you know what being with an emotionally available man is like, why settle for one who isn’t?

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