Woman who weighs 420lbs reveals she ONLY dates skinny men as being with a partner her own size would limit her in the bedroom – and her current lover admits their sex life is ‘explosive’
- Nikki Baker, 28, from Ohio has struggled with her weight her whole life
- When she was scouted by a model photographer in 2009 it boosted confidence
- Now only dates smaller men as she says sex is difficult if man has ‘a belly’ too
- She’s currently dating Brandon who loves her body and confidence
A 420lb (30 stone) woman has reveals how she only dates skinny men because relationships with men her size would make sex ‘difficult’.
Merchant advisor, Nikki Baker, 28, from Ohio has been ‘fat’ her entire life, but being teased by her peers has left her with thick skin and after being scouted by a modelling photographer in 2009, she decided to embrace her body with pride.
She has since discovered many positive traits that have increased her confidence, particularly regarding her love life.
Nikki, who is size 28 to 30 (UK 32 to 34) now insists that she prefers to date skinny men, as being with a man of her build would limit her sex life.
She has been casually dating a man called Brandon Noland, who says that their sex life is ‘explosive’, and reveals he was initially attracted to Nikki for her confidence.
Nikki Baker, 28, from Ohio who weighs 420lbs (30 stone) has revealed she only dates skinny men as relationships with people her own size would make sex too difficult
Nikki is currently dating Brandon Noland, who says that their sex life is ‘explosive’, and admits he was first attracted to her confidence
‘I could tell right away that she loves her body and has a lot of confidence. That and her dyed hair and fashion sense were what initially attracted me to her the most,’ Brandon said.
‘I think what I love the most about her body is the way it feels. She’s soft and has a particular texture that makes touching her just wonderful. It’s really hard to pick just one thing here though, there’s a lot to love about Nikki’s body.
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‘Our sex life is pretty explosive, we’re still in the early stages of getting to know and exploring each other, and we’re both pretty well-suited for each other and capable of making each other feel great. It’s a blast.’
Nikki says that while she has always had confidence in herself, the road to embracing her body hasn’t always been smooth.
Brandon said that he and Nikki are just in the early stages of getting to know each other, but added that he loves her body especially the softness of her skin
Nikki pictured during a modelling shoot: She struggled with her confidence after being teased as a child, but when she was scouted by a photographer in 2009 it gave her self-esteem a boost
Brandon said he was first attracted to Nikki’s confidence, dyed hair and fashion sense. He revealed they enjoy an ‘explosive’ sex life, and said he believes they’re very well suited
‘I’ve been fat my entire life. I’ve gotten ridiculed by strangers and loved ones alike, and to be honest, it messed me up pretty badly,’ Nikki said.
‘I grew up confident, at first. My mum always tells this story about me in the playground when I was about five years old.
‘Apparently, some kid was making fun of me being fat while we were playing after school and I stopped, looked at them, and said, ‘I could beat you up right now, but I won’t.’
‘I just smiled and walked away. I lost that confidence for a little while in my teen years, but I think that’s a pretty accurate reflection of my current attitude towards the haters.
Since the age of 19, Nikki’s taken the view that she can’t let others dictate how she feels about herself and has learned to love her body
‘I don’t want to call anyone out directly, but my mum was and is the only one who has always been supportive of me. As long as I’m happy and healthy, then she is happy for me.
‘Strangers gawk, point and whisper; especially if I’m wearing a short dress or some short shorts. But, let’s be serious, you can tell I’m fat regardless of whether I’m wearing sweat pants and a t-shirt, or a bikini. So why does it matter?
‘I’ve had the side glances and whispers from family members, being told I’m going to get as big as a house, things like that.
Nikki, pictured as a teenager, has always struggled with her weight and was bullied by her peers as a youngster
‘This was all when I was very young and very impressionable. A second grader shouldn’t be starving themselves because they’re worried about what their own family will say.
‘I think when I was around nineteen-years-old, I had a revelation. I realised that this is the body I have, and I can’t let others dictate whether I love myself or not.
‘So, I slowly started buying clothes that actually fit me, not just baggy t-shirts and skinny jeans. I began to dabble in makeup and then I began modelling for Jesse Fox.
‘I saw her searching for a plus sized model. So, I went for it. My first real modelling ‘gig’ was in a bra and skirt, and it was low-key awesome.
‘I remember sitting naked in her living room, with her then-husband, and not having a worry in the world. Before then, I’d never been naked in front of anyone.
‘I felt less judged and more beautiful in the nude than I did walking down the street fully clothed in the past.
Nikki sid that due to the way she’s built; sex with someone the same size can be difficult if the other person ‘also has a belly on them’. She now exclusively dates men who are smaller than her as she doesn’t want to limit being adventurous in bed
After being scouted by a modelling photographer in 2009, Nikki decided to embrace her body with pride.
Nikki explains how her confidence and body has helped with her sex life.
‘From what I’ve heard, most men I have relationships with are drawn to me because of my confidence,’ Nikki said.
‘The sex with skinny men is usually pretty damn awesome and, I kind of love the shock factor when I walk in somewhere with a ‘conventionally attractive’ significant other, and people gawk at us holding hands or being affectionate.
‘Due to the way that I am built; sex can tend to be a little difficult if the other person also has a belly on them. I know plenty of super-sized big beautiful women (SSBBW) that prefer bigger men; but for me, I feel like it would just limit the number of adventurous things we could try if there’s too much in the way.’
Nikki was overweight as a child, but says that being teased has given her a thick skin today. However, she said that her mother is the only person who has been supportive of her throughout her whole life and never made her feel bad about her size
Nikki pictured (on the right) during her first modelling shoot with photographer Jesse Fox. She said she couldn’t believe how confident she felt wearing just her bra and a skirt
Nikki has a message for those that criticise her for her body and confidence and to other plus size women.
‘I feel like if you’re offended by my comfort in my own skin, you should maybe take a step back and figure out why it bothers you to see someone that loves themselves,’ she said.
‘I know it sounds weird, but to see the confusion on someone’s face when they realise that I’m fat as hell, I’m a vegetarian and I exercise – it is hilarious.
‘It has been a long and hard process. It’s difficult enough being a fat woman. But being a fat woman that openly loves herself? People act as if my confidence somehow steals their own.
‘You are beautiful. Plain and simple. Every imperfection, every dimple, every stretch mark, scar, what have you. They make you who you are.’
Nikki said that’s she’s learned to love herself exactly as she is and believes her body confidence feels threatening to some smaller women
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