Katrice Lee vanished in 1981 on her second birthday at the base in Paderborn where her soldier dad was stationed.
She had been shopping for birthday tea treats with her mum Sharon at the Schloss Neuhaus NAAFI supermarket when she disappeared.
The case, which has chilling similarities to season two of BBC drama The Missing, remains unsolved.
Sharon, now 64, said the toddler was “gone in a matter of seconds”. She added: “It’s living a nightmare that you never wake up from.
“Nearly 37 years ago we became members of an exclusive club we didn’t ask for membership of — we became parents of a missing daughter. I would dearly love to be able to revoke that membership.
Now, police and experts are to lead 100 soldiers on a five-week, £100,000 forensic excavation of the banks of the River Alme.
The site was identified after the release in 2017 of an age-progressed e-fit of a man seen at the NAAFI holding a child similar to Katrice.
He was spotted parked in a green saloon car on a bridge over the river the day after her disappearance.
Fighting back tears, Sharon told The Sun: “Although I would like a fairytale ending to our story, I fully appreciate that might not be.
“But at the end of the day, we will have closure and any emotions that come from that closure we will learn to live with and deal with as we have for the past nearly 37 years.
“The next five weeks is a double-edged sword for us as a family. We desperately want Katrice to be found but we also know that if anything is discovered during this search then my daughter’s life would have been ended in very unsavoury circumstances.
“That’s another emotion we have to learn to live with.”
Katrice’s dad Staff Sergeant Richard Lee, of the King’s Royal Hussars, was posted in West Germany at the height of the Cold War.
On November 28, 1981, the NAAFI was rammed on the last pay day before Christmas. Sharon said: “If you wanted English goodies, that was the time to get them. Katrice wouldn’t sit in the trolley, so I carried her all the way around in my arms doing my shopping.
“When we got to the checkout I realised I’d forgotten crisps.
“I put Katrice down and said to my sister Wendy, ‘Just keep an eye on her while I go back to the crisps stand’. It wasn’t far away. It took me about 40 seconds, a minute at most. When I got back I asked, ‘Where’s Katrice?’.
“My sister said, ‘I thought she was with you. She ran and followed you’.
“I went back down the aisle and she wasn’t there. Panic started to set in. I couldn’t see her anywhere. There was so many people. I was calling her name. Katrice couldn’t be found — she wasn’t there.”
The Royal Military Police and German cops worked on the assumption the little girl — wearing red wellies, a turquoise duffle coat and tartan dress — wandered off, fell into another nearby river, the flooded Lippe, and drowned. But a hunt proved fruitless.
Statements from shop staff were not taken for six weeks and details of an eye condition Katrice had were not released.
The case was reopened in 2000 and led to the arrest of a former soldier. But he was released without charge and the case closed again after three years. There were further inquiries in 2012.
Sharon, of Gosport, Hants, now divorced from Richard, is convinced Katrice was abducted. She said: “It’s my belief she left the NAAFI shop that morning, but she didn’t leave alone. I can’t believe — the NAAFI was so busy that morning — that a two-year-old walked out and disappeared off the face of the Earth and no one saw what happened.
“I still have to go out and face the world and go about a daily routine but this situation never leaves you.
“You can’t live with it 24/7. You have to push it to the back of your mind. But first thing in the morning and last thing at night, those are the times it gets to you.”
Thanks to the family’s campaigning, Defence Secretary Gavin Williamson ordered extra resources for Operation Bute — the cold case probe run by a 28-strong RMP task force.
Dad Richard, now 68, had criticised the RMP handling of the case, but felt his voice had “finally been heard” at a summit with Mr Williamson this year. He said: “Hopefully, we can resolve issues and find out where my daughter is.”
As cops appeal again for information to help solve the case, Sharon added: “If people put themselves in my shoes for five minutes and feel how we have lived and felt for the past 36 years, then maybe those feelings would get them to come forward."
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Kidnap similar to Beeb drama
By David Willetts
THE disappearance of toddler Katrice Lee in 1981 has similarities to the story told in series two of the BBC drama The Missing.
Shown in late 2016, the eight-part series stars David Morrissey and Keeley Hawes as a couple whose daughter Alice vanishes from an British Army garrison in Eckhausen in Germany in 2003.
They work with French detective Julien Baptiste — played by Tchéky Karyo — to find the kidnapper after Alice reappears in 2014.
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