Rudy Giuliani‘s daughter Caroline is getting outspoken.
The 32-year-old filmmaker and writer spoke out about her sex life in an essay for Vanity Fair, called A Unicorn’s Tale: Three-Way Sex With Couples Has Made Me a Better Person“, in which she discusses polyamory.
“I was in a long-term, loving, monogamous relationship that my body begged me to end before it progressed to an engagement. At the time, I didn’t fully understand what was missing from that relationship, but I did know that my partner loved me despite my weird wildness, while I yearned to be with someone who loved me because of it,” she wrote.
She then said she “immediately began to make up for lost time” and had enough sex to break her stainless steel bed.
She said her experimental phases in high school were “inextricably intertwined with adolescent angst and rebellion,” versus her adulthood experimentation, which is “much more peaceful”.
“It was not reacting or crying out but intentionally searching,” she said, adding that it helped her better cope with depression, anxiety, and the “lingering cognitive effects of adolescent anorexia.”
“Intimacy between two people is like ping-pong, but with three people, it’s like volleying a ball with no net, and no blueprint. That openness has changed my life,” she continued.
“When a couple invites me into their bed, I not only get welcomed into the midst of their preexisting connection, but also get to forge a new one with them based on their trust that I will respect the boundaries of their relationship. This is a vulnerable position all around: for the couple in opening their connection to a newcomer, and for the unicorn in entering a power dynamic where they are the only one without an established teammate.”
“For concerned citizens inclined to respond to my sexual liberation by reminding me to respect myself — it’s baffling how many well-intentioned, ‘woke’ people let this kind of sexist rhetoric slip out — I hope this piece helps you understand that I do respect myself, arguably even more than I did before I started sleeping with couples,” she went on to say.
“One of the most frustrating misconceptions about sexually adventurous people is that we are somehow less responsible. But the opposite may be true. Shining a communal light on sexuality makes it harder for darkness, like assault and trauma, to fester.”
Caroline made headlines last year when she revealed her political stance.
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