‘I asked “Are you ready?” and she said “Yes, I won’t make a noise”‘: Husband, 73, tells how he slit his terminally-ill wife’s throat after they shared a last drink together in their garden as he is cleared of her murder
- Graham Mansfield was convicted of the manslaughter of his wife Dyanne, 71
- He slit her throat in March last year then unsuccessfully tried to kill himself
- Mr Mansfield told how she was informed she had lung cancer in October 2020
- If you are struggling with depression or suicidal thoughts, you can contact The Samaritans helpline 24/7 on 116 123 for help and support
A husband who killed his terminally-ill wife in a suicide pact has told how they shared a last drink together before going to the bottom of the garden to end their lives.
Graham Mansfield, 73, walked free from court on Thursday after being convicted of the manslaughter of his 71-year-old wife Dyanne.
He slit her throat in March last year then unsuccessfully tried to kill himself. In an interview at his home in Hale, Greater Manchester, Mr Mansfield said his wife was informed she had stage four lung cancer in October 2020, just weeks after they’d celebrated their 40th wedding anniversary.
When they returned home from the hospital, Mr Mansfield said the suicide pact was first raised. Mrs Mansfield asked her husband if he would be willing to kill her if things got ‘too bad’.
He agreed ‘on one condition’. Mr Mansfield said: ‘I said I would have to go with her. I said “I can’t live without you Dyanne”.
‘In a funny way it gave me strength. I knew I was dying as well. I could focus on that.’
The couple met in their local pub in Woodhouse Park in Wythenshawe on New Year’s Eve in 1974 and were married six years later.
Graham Mansfield (pictured), 73, walked free from court on Thursday after being convicted of the manslaughter of his 71-year-old wife Dyanne
He slit her throat in March last year then unsuccessfully tried to kill himself (Dyanne Mansfield pictured right)
They shared many interests, including walking, gardening and cycling, and it was, according to Mr Mansfield, a loving and happy marriage.
He said: ‘Dyanne was a wonderful person. She was my whole world. We didn’t need anybody else. We just needed one another. We had a wonderful life together.’
But by March last year, Mrs Mansfield was in unbearable pain and told her husband ‘I’ve had enough, I can’t take any more’.
On March 22 they drove to Buxton and Macclesfield to find a ‘quiet’ and ‘convenient’ place to carry out the pact, but instead decided to use their garden the following day.
Mr Mansfield, a retired baggage handler at Manchester Airport, had already begun making preparations.
He’d cancelled the papers, the milk delivery and the window cleaner, emptied the freezer and tidied the house.
Mr Mansfield (right) told how his wife (left) was informed she had stage four lung cancer in October 2020, just weeks after they’d celebrated their 40th wedding anniversary (pictured at their Las Vegas wedding in 1980)
Their last night together was spent ‘crying and telling each other how much we loved one another’.
At around 5pm the next day Mrs Mansfield had a glass of red wine, while Mr Mansfield had a can of lager and a whisky and lemonade.
It was cold so they both put their coats on and, after Mr Mansfield had locked up the house on Canterbury Road, made their way down to the bottom of the garden where two chairs were arranged next to each other.
He asked ‘Are you ready?’, to which his wife replied ‘Yes, I won’t make a noise’. He then walked behind the chair she was sat in and slit her throat with a Stanley knife.
Sat overlooking the same garden, Mr Mansfield broke down in tears as he recalled that horrific moment. He said: ‘It went against every fibre of my body.
‘I ran round to the front of the chair. I said “What have I done?” I sat next to her, put my arm round her and told I loved her.’
When they returned home from the hospital, Mr Mansfield said the suicide pact was first raised. Mrs Mansfield asked her husband if he would be willing to kill her if things got ‘too bad’ (Mr Mansfield pictured arriving at Manchester Crown Court for an earlier hearing)
Mr Mansfield then tried to take his own life, but passed out before waking up in the kitchen the next morning.
On the morning of March 24 last year, he was found lying in a pool of blood at the couple’s home.
Police and paramedics attended the semi-detached property after Mr Mansfield dialled 999 and told the operator he had killed his wife of 40 years at 9pm the previous day before trying to kill himself.
Mansfield was arrested at the scene on suspicion of murder and later underwent surgery for wounds to his neck and both wrists.
Mrs Mansfield, a retired import/export clerk, was found slumped in a chair at the bottom of their garden.
A note left nearby addressed to police read: ‘We have decided to take our own lives.’
Mr Mansfield was eventually charged with murder, which he denied.
At Manchester Crown Court the judge, Mr Justice Goose, told jurors that for Mr Mansfield to be convicted of murder, they had to be sure that he used unlawful violence which caused the death of his wife, and that he intended to kill her.
But the case could be reduced to manslaughter if they believed it was ‘more likely than not’ that the suicide pact was a joint agreement between the couple, which Mrs Mansfield had voluntarily agreed to and that her husband had made a genuine attempt on his own life.
Mrs Mansfield (above), a retired import/export clerk, was found slumped in a chair at the bottom of their garden
The court was told two notes to loved ones were found at the house after Mrs Mansfield died. Pictured: Police investigators outside the Mansfield’s home in Hale in March last year
Jurors took 90 minutes to return the unanimous verdict following a four day trial. The judge sentenced him to a two year suspended prison sentence after saying he was ‘entirely satisfied’ that Mr Mansfield had acted out of ‘love’ and ‘compassion’ towards his spouse.
But Mr Mansfield, who admits to feeling ‘elation’ when the sentence was passed, doesn’t believe the case should have got to court in the first place.
He has called for euthanasia to be legalised in the UK and said if the Covid lockdown hadn’t stopped international travel they would have considered going to Dignitas in Switzerland.
Mr Mansfield said: ‘We have done nothing wrong. We didn’t need permission from other people. It was our decision. I killed her with love.
‘If someone is terminally ill, if they’re in pain, what’s wrong with saying I don’t want to live any more? [Euthanasia] is a humane and sensible way to do things. The law meant we had to resort to this barbaric method.’
If you are struggling with depression or suicidal thoughts, you can contact The Samaritans helpline 24/7 on 116 123 for help and support.
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