Drunk bridesmaid slammed for nearly sleeping with the groom

Woman is left torn after drunken fellow bridesmaid admitted she texted the groom for months and gave him a massage after the rehearsal party – and is told she MUST inform the bride

  • Reddit user Goodwilltshirt posted to ‘WeddingShaming’ thread to ask for help
  • The two bridesmaids, anonymously ‘Lisa’ and ‘Jen’ got too drunk at the wedding
  • Lisa and Jen were loudly bad-mouthing the bride in front of embarrassed guests
  • One revealed that she and the groom had been flirting and nearly slept together

An astounded wedding guest has revealed how two bridesmaids’ jaw-dropping antics at the reception left her feeling like she was in the middle of a TV drama. 

A Reddit user, believed to be from the US, has took to the Wedding Shaming thread to ask for advice, after one of the bridesmaids confessed that she’d almost hooked up with the groom ahead of the big day. 

She explained that at the reception, one of her fellow bridesmaids started ‘talking loudly about how she and the groom had been messaging for months on social media and that after rehearsal party, he snuck to her hotel room and she wanted to have sex with him, but only ended up giving him a massage’. 

After the wedding, the bridesmaid sent her screenshots of messages she’d received from the groom saying he regretted not having sex with her, and that he wished she was on the honeymoon with him instead.     

Commenters urged her to tell her friend because she needs to be aware as soon as possible so that she can get out of the marriage. 

Two drunken bridesmaids have been slammed for getting too drunk at their friend’s wedding where one revealed she and the groom nearly hooked up, and a friend of the bride has taken to Reddit to see what she should do with this information (file photo) 

Reddit user Goodwilltshirt has taken to the ‘WeddingShaming’ thread asking for advice from the community on whether or not she should tell her good friend, the bride, that one of her bridesmaids was spilling some secrets on her special day

The Redditor was one of the bridesmaids along with two of their former mutual coworkers, whose names she changed to Lisa and Jen.

She explained that a week before the wedding, she had dinner with Lisa and Jen who revealed that they didn’t want to be in the wedding anymore, but felt bad to drop out so last minute.

The wedding had been postponed due to the pandemic and two years had passed since they’d agreed to be bridesmaids, and no longer work together.  

I told them they should be honest with the bride but they decided to go through with it even though they did not feel close to the bride anymore. This, I get,’ she said.

‘All of that was fine until the wedding reception when both the girls were drunk. Lisa and Jen start talking about how unhappy they were being bridesmaids and how they didn’t like the bride anymore personally because, get this – the bride didn’t have the consideration to take them out of the wedding.

‘They said these things very loudly while other guests looked at our table upset. Lisa was the worst. She did something I’ve only seen on TV.

‘She starts talking loudly about how she and the groom had been messaging for months on social media and that after the wedding rehearsal party, he snuck to her hotel room and she wanted to have sex with him but only ended up giving him a massage.

The Reddit community were all in agreement on this question about the bridesmaid drama, in that the original poster of the thread needs to tell the wife what has been going on

‘I walked away from the table because I was so embarrassed. Please know I did not know Lisa well personally as most our interactions were at work and an occasional dinner date.

‘The worst part is that while the couple was on their honeymoon, Lisa sent Jen and I screenshots of the groom saying he wished they’d done stuff together and that he wanted Lisa to be with him on his honeymoon instead. So gross.’

Users were quick to plead with the woman who posted it to tell the bride what she has gotten herself into.

One said it would be selfish to not say anything to the bride, even though the woman is conscious of losing her friendship and does not want her friend to be upset with her.

She added: ‘Tell her. She needs to know what she married while she is still young enough to change course. Before (hopefully) she gets pregnant by this d*******g.’

Another said: ‘I agree with all the sentiments saying tell the bride ASAP before she changes her name on everything (if she’s choosing to do that).

‘This whole situation is so gross, it will be painful for her but she deserves to know before she settles even further into the relationship.

‘He got a massage from her after the f*****g wedding rehearsal?? That is so gross.’

Another added: ‘Normally I’d think twice about hurting the bride but in this case, telling her is saving her future hurt. Not to mention possible STDs, gaslighting, contemptuous treatment.

The original poster, Goodwilltshirt, added to the thread after getting a few responses back to say that she’s scared to tell her friend but recognises that it’s the right thing to do

‘But please figure out a way to do it with emotional support for her. Even if she was the worst Bridezilla of all time.

‘Perhaps she sensed something like this and that made her actions off base.

‘How sad this is. Why would this happen?’

The original poster,went back into the thread to give an update and explained: ‘Being honest, I am scared of how I will even tell my friend but I know it’s the right thing to do.

‘A week ago I texted her and opened the convo with, “Hey how are you?” and the first response was how happy she was since her wedding and thanking me for attending her wedding.

‘I know if I were In her shoes I’d hope someone would tell me but seeing her responses I just couldn’t do it at the time.’

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