DEAR DEIDRE: I THOUGHT trying anal sex would make my boyfriend happy – but it’s just left me in pain.
My partner is 25 and I am 23.
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He has been suggesting it for a while, but I’ve always said no. I just don’t see the attraction.
But as it was his birthday, I decided I would give it a try. I thought it would be good to push the boundaries a little and hoped that we would both enjoy the experience together.
Instead it turned out to be the night from hell.
I was in pain the entire time, and going to the loo afterwards was very uncomfortable.
My boyfriend has no idea I didn’t enjoy it, and has asked to make it a more regular thing.
I don’t want to let him down, but there is no way I can go through that again.
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DEIDRE SAYS: You should never do anything you don’t want to do in bed – if you don’t enjoy something, or find it painful, it’s your right to stop.
If you don’t want to have anal sex again, tell him.
If he really cares about you, this won’t be a problem.
My support pack 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex has lots of other ways to spice up your sex life.
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