DEAR DEIDRE: I'VE met the guy I will marry – he just doesn’t know it yet.
He moved in across the hall from me last month, and I instantly knew he was the one.
For more advice from Dear Deidre
No issue is too small, too large or too embarrassing. Read our personal replies here.
- Dear Deidre on Mental Health
- Dear Deidre on Identity
- Dear Deidre on Debt and Money
- Dear Deidre on Work
- Dear Deidre on Health and Wellbeing
- Dear Deidre on Addiction
He’s 20, really fit and he has the most amazing eyes and smile.
I’m 19 and I can’t stop thinking about him.
We’ve hung out a few times and get on well.
But I’m terrified he won’t like me, even though I know for sure I’m supposed to be with him.
I don’t know how to calm down and stop obsessing over him.
Get in touch with Deidre
Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays.
Send an email to [email protected]
You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page.
Most read in Dear Deidre
DEAR DEIDRE 
My husband's cheated with four other women – but always comes crawling back
My wife wants to separate because I've got no sex drive
I'm sure I'm pregnant but the tests say I'm not – am I going mad?
I wish my granddaughter would dump her low-life boyfriend
DEIDRE SAYS: Take a deep breath. If he really is the one for you, he’ll know it too, and there is no hurry.
But love at first sight can be deceptive, and easily confused with lust.
Get to know him slowly and let things develop naturally.
My support pack, Finding The Love Of Your Life, might be useful to read.
NEXT IN TODAY'S DEAR DEIDRE All my friends are in relationships and I feel so jealous and alone
READ DEIDRE'S PHOTO CASEBOOK Luke gets a shock when he tries to cheat with Ava
GET IN TOUCH How the page works and how to contact us
Source: Read Full Article
