A man has confessed he is too polite to share his honest feelings that he has ended up in a bit of a pickle with a wife and two girlfiends. If that situation wasn’t complicated enough, he has revealed one of the women is pregnant with his baby.
The man in question said his situation “makes [him] sound [like a] terrible” person.
His “wife and two girlfriends” scenario has now “become a major problem” for him as “one of the girls is expecting [his] baby”.
The man remarked: “I probably come across like some guy who just puts it about and doesn’t care about anyone except himself, but I’m not really like that.
“I genuinely don’t want to hurt any of them, which is partly what’s got me into this mess.”
The gentleman, who is in his late twenties works as a lorry driver, and his job takes him “all over the country”.
Long drives means he often has to “spend nights away” and he explained how he finds its very lonely.
His lonliness, he says, is the reason why he “ended up cheating on [his] wife the first time”.
But it wasn’t long before his wife found “some sexy text messages” on his phone, and asked him to leave their house.
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With nowhere to go, the man moved in with a friend, and “started acting like a single bloke again” in his downtime.
He said he was “out partying” and seemingly enjoying himself, but “deep down”, he confesssed he was just “lonely and fed up”.
On one occasion, a lady “made it obvious” to him that “she was interested” in a romance with him, so he “went for it”.
They saw one another a few times, but the lady is “now pregnant” and the man feels as if he “can’t just turn my back” on her and his unborn child.
To add to this, his wife, who he is seperated from, has admitted she would like to “try again” and work at their marriage.
Whilst the man still “has feelings” for his wife, he finds himself at a cross roads not knowing what to do next.
He has his wife, who wants to take him back and work through their issues, he has a woman who he has dated a few times who is pregnant with his baby, and there is a third woman, who he “likes the most” and has been seeing when his job takes him across the country.
The third woman, he admitted, is the one who “gives [him] the least hassle” too.
Laura Collins, a counsellor shared her advice with Metro for the man whom she described as being “irresponsible and immature”.
She said if the lady who is pregnant chooses to continue with the pregnancy, the man has to “help support it”, but he must make it clear he doesn’t want to be her “long term partner”.
Then for his wife, he has to “be honest about the pregnant girl” and suggested couples counselling to save his marriage.
As for his second girlfriend, he should “end this relationship now” until he has dealt with the other two ladies.
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