My partner always describes himself as a “ladies’ man”.
He’s unfailingly flirty and charming. Over the years he’s had a couple of sexual flings, which I’ve forgiven because he reassured me they meant nothing.
Now stuff just got serious. He has been accused of being a sex pest at work – and lost his job.
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Two years ago, he lost another position due to inappropriate behaviour, now I understand why. I’ve asked if he feels guilty but he seems to think that he’s the victim here – that people were out to get him due to jealousy.
'I'm a rampant sex addict – I hate romance and just want to bonk all the time'
I’m mortified. What kind of idiot have I saddled myself with?
JANE SAYS: It’s worrying that this man refuses to accept any blame or acknowledge any wrongdoing.
If you can’t respect him, if he doesn’t make you happy, or bring anything positive into your life, then do you have a future? Where is your line in the sand?
Is he in danger of being a drag on your energy and patience as he stumbles from one drama to the next? Don’t feel guilty or responsible for a second longer because this has to be your time now.
As a parting shot you might suggest that he finally seeks professional help for his inappropriate behaviour and bad attitude. Do you make today the day that you tell him that you’ve had enough?
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