DEAR DEIDRE: A SEX drought is about to drive me into the arms of another woman.
My wife and I haven’t made love for four years – I can’t remember what it feels like.
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She has no interest in sex and won’t even talk about it.
We’ve been married for 20 years. I’m 48 and she’s 46.
I’m sick of lying in bed feeling frustrated and unattractive while she reads.
If I touch her, she shakes her head and turns away.
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A female neighbour has made it clear she fancies me, and I am finding it hard to resist.
I love my wife but I’m not a saint, and I’ve had enough.
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DEIDRE SAYS: It is unrealistic of your wife to expect you to remain happy in a sexless marriage.
You need to talk to her and tell her you’re at breaking point.
If she realises she might lose you, it could make her address the issue.
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