DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife loves her sex toy more than she loves me.
We have been together for six years. She is 32 and I’m 36.
We have always got on well and had a regular sex life, which I enjoy. I make sure we do it a few times a week.
I don’t know if my wife orgasms, she never says, she just turns over and goes to sleep afterwards.
Her best friend from work invited her to a lingerie and sex-toy party and I was shocked that my wife wanted to go.
She came home with a vibrator.
She was quite shy about it at first but now she wants to use it every time we get intimate.
She says she’s now not bothered about having sex with me but I really miss the intimacy.
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DEIDRE SAYS: If her upbringing has taught her to feel sexually inhibited, the sex toy will shown her the pleasure she can feel – but she can get that sensation with you too.
Most women don’t orgasm through intercourse alone.
It is coupled with manual stimulation of those erogenous zones that bring a new dimension to sex.
Next time, ask her to show you what the vibrator does by guiding your hands to the right place.
My support pack Help Your Partner Reach Orgasm explains more.
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