DEAR DEIDRE: VIAGRA does nothing for me. I thought those little blue pills were supposed to be fantastic.
I am 42 and divorced. I started seeing somebody from my local pub. She is 35.
We went to bed for the first time a fortnight ago and I just couldn’t get it up.
I am not sure what was wrong with me. I hadn’t had much to drink and I fancy the pants off her.
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I bought some blue pills online but half an hour after taking them, still nothing had happened.
I don’t think I will ever be able to enjoy sex again.
DEIDRE SAYS: Yes, you will. If you get early-morning erections then you know everything is working as it should.
If you are in any doubt, see your doctor for a check-up. And don’t buy medication online. You don’t know what you are buying.
If you feel you are fit and well, it is likely this is classic performance anxiety, where you build yourself up to fail.
Explain to your girlfriend that you will need time to feel “in the moment” and focus more on her, without the pressure for sex.
After a couple of sessions like this, you may find you are back on form.
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