‘If you can creep them out, they leave you alone’: Woman reveals clever ways she deals with men who harass her in the street, including threatening to sell their numbers to ORGAN HARVESTERS
- Kitti, 26, says that nearly every day, a man she doesn’t know will approach her out in public and catcall her, hit on her, or make other unwelcome advances
- She said she was always good at dealing with bullies, so she’s applied her tactics to these men
- Kitti has told men she likes to ‘dig up dead things,’ and suggests other women talk about their hemorrhoids, debt collectors, and dead grandpas
- She says men get ‘confused’ and ‘put off’ but don’t feel rejection, ‘so they don’t get all emotional’ and leave her alone
- Being creepy gets rid of unwanted advances without escalating the situation – and may make them thing twice before they ‘bug a pretty girl’ again
A self-described ‘villain coach’ is teaching women how to ‘traumatize men’ who harass them on the street by scaring them off with off-putting remarks, creepy threats, and bizarre overshares.
Kitti, 26, says that nearly every day, a man she doesn’t know will approach her out in public and catcall her, hit on her, or make other unwelcome advances — and she knows that many other women have similar experiences.
She also knows that a police ‘no’ often does nothing to fend off these men, who can be persistent and demanding.
So now Kitti gives them a reason to back off by TKing, Tking, and even threatening to sell their information to organ harvesters.
‘If you can creep them out, they leave you alone,’ she says.
Kitti, 26, says that nearly every day, a man she doesn’t know will approach her out in public and catcall her, hit on her, or make other unwelcome advances
She said she was always good at dealing with bullies, so she’s applied her tactics to these men
I keep seeing comments to stay safe. Bold of y’all to assume I’m the one who needs to be cautious on who I speak to #outcreepthecreeper #fyp #women #streetharassment #comeback #WomenOwnedBusiness
In one video, which has been viewed 5.5 million times since it was posted last month, Kitti records the moment she is walking outside when a man approaches her and asks if he can give her his phone number.
‘You don’t want to give me your number … because anyone who’s in my phone gets contacted by organ harvesters,’ she replies.
When the man asks what that is, she tells him, ‘It’s people who take your organs and sell them.’
‘Yeah, never mind,’ he says.
She made similar organ harvesting comments to a group of men who began talking to her on her walk last April.
In yet another video, she fires back a guy who calls after her, asking if she had a boyfriend.
‘Not one that’s alive anymore!’ she says.
To a man that asked her to hang out, she said: ‘People don’t like to hang out with me because I like to dig up dead things and carve them up.’
Kitti has also shared her tips for what can tell men who tell them to smile.
‘I’m afraid I don’t have anything to smile about,’ she suggests, adding that women should then go into a laundry list of problems, including: ‘One of the people I owe a lot of money to just came to collect. I’m minus a pinky toe.’
‘One of my hemorrhoids just popped and for the last couple of days, pus and blood has been caking between my a** cheeks and every time I walk I feel like there’s sandpaper in my a**,’ she goes on.
‘All of my hair is falling out. I have impacted molars. I found out I’ve been mispronouncing depaccio my entire life… who was gonna tell me it’s despacito?
‘A tree recently fell on my house and killed my grandfather,’ she says.
Kitti has told men she likes to ‘dig up dead things,’ and suggests other women talk about their hemorrhoids, debt collectors, and dead grandpas
Being creepy gets rid of unwanted advances without escalating the situation – and may make them thing twice before they ‘bug a pretty girl’ again
The key is the delivery. All of these work as one liners as well #streetharassment #outcreepthecreeps #fyp #women #smile #traumatizethemen
‘I just ran of meth,’ she adds.
Kitti’s deadpan delivery had delighted TikTokers, who have called her a ‘hero.’
Speaking to BuzzFeed, Kitti said that she was always good at creeping out bullies, so she has applied those same tactics to men.
‘They’re always just super confused and put off. They don’t necessarily feel proper rejection, so they don’t get all emotional. Instead, they choose to leave the interaction. Men will always ask, “Why not?” when rejected anyway, so I give them a solid preemptive reason.
‘We femme-presenting people and women don’t get the luxury of saying “no’ politely since it can get us murdered. We always have to give a reason when we reject advances anyway, so why not have fun and teach them a little lesson about approaching strangers?’ she said.
‘I’m creepy because it does not escalate the situation and makes unwanted advancers leave with just a wee bit of trauma, which hopefully will stick with them the next time they think to bug a pretty girl. If I’m the villain in their narrative, then that’s fine by me.’
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