What REALLY happens when the wife finds out about the lover: UK’s most prolific mistress claims she’s had angry phone calls and requests for a threesome – but some don’t care as long as they can still spend his money
- A woman who sleeps with married men reveals what their wives have to say
- Gweneth Lee, 40s, explains wives from different countries react differently
- One wife unknowingly sold Gweneth art while her husband paid £10,000 for it
- Another, drunk texted Gweneth to ask who she was after discovering her name
A woman who considers herself the ‘UK’s most well-known mistress’ has revealed all about the women in her life – the wives of her married lovers.
Gweneth Lee, who is in her 40s, splits her time between London and California, living a life of luxury funded by her very rich and powerful partners, all of whom have a significant other at home.
While the businesswoman most definitely takes advantage of the perks of dating millionaire CEOs, she also often has to deal with the backlash – including angry phone calls from wives.
Others try to get involved by offering threesomes while some aren’t bothered at all.
Gweneth Lee is the UK’s ‘most well-known mistress’ and revealed stories of heartbreak and threesomes when her lovers’ wives discovered her
While the businesswoman takes advantage of the perks of dating millionaire CEOs, she reveals she also often has to deal with angry phone calls from wives
Gweneth Lee with her lover and his dog next to his private jet which he uses for weekends away like their trip to Paris
As Gweneth puts it, the latter are happy so long as they ‘keep getting money, gifts and can keep the Range Rover’.
‘I’ve had several incidents where I’ve met men’s wives,’ she explained.
‘Some were funny but others… not so much.
‘One wife, who was clearly drunk, texted me to say she was with her husband and had found my name, and “Did I want to join them for a drink?”.
The business woman reveals that some wives aren’t ‘bothered’ about their husbands cheating with her, and leave them to it
Gweneth Lee in her suite at the exclusive Hotel Hassler in Rome while on a break with her married tycoon lover
Gweneth will often be showered with expensive presents from her lovers from designer brands such as Gucci
‘I told her to give me a call and she was really upset. Weirdly, she didn’t even ask if I’d had sex with him – and with this particular man, I hadn’t! We had just been on a few dates.
‘I find some women just want someone to blame but they can’t blame their husband because he’s the father of their children or they have to continue to co-exist, or they don’t want to lose the benefits of dating a rich man.’
Gweneth has also met some of her lovers’ partners, including one particularly memorable visit with a wife who, to this day, doesn’t know she met her husband’s side piece.
She said: ‘I was having an affair with a man who has medical clinics in London.
The experienced mistress used to be married to oil executive husband Robert, until he tragically died
The well known mistress explained that wives will get upset with her while looking for someone to blame for the breakdown of their marriage
Despite some wives being upset, others know all about Gweneth and even want to have sex with her themselves
‘His wife was an artist and I collect art, so one day he told me to check out her pieces and contact her.
‘Soon after, I went to her atelier so she could show me around and we got on very well.
‘She never found out that I was his mistress.’
As for the art piece that Gweneth had her eye on, it unfortunately got ruined in a flood (make of that what you will…) but her married man happily transferred her the £10,000 for it instead.
Gweneth Lee while on holiday with her married tycoon love in Valletta, Malta who she met through the affairs website IllicitEncounters.com
Some wives know all about Gweneth and even want to have sex with her themselves.
Gweneth said: ‘The offer of the threesome came from the wife of one of my regular married lovers.
‘I had been seeing this guy in London for around two years. He was a wealthy financier stuck in a miserable marriage who was seeing other women apart from me.
‘Eventually he walked out on the marriage and quickly remarried another mistress he was seeing at the same time as me.
Gweneth Lee soaking up the sun and enjoying a glass of wine with her married tycoon lover in Malta
Gweneth will always ask their wives how they feel and explains that their anger isn’t about the fact she sleeps with their men but it’s a more deep-rooted issu
‘It is this second mistress, now wife, who wants to have a threesome with me and her hubby.
‘All three of us love sex and I cannot wait to join them for a night of fun. If you are all approaching a threesome with the same attitude, where is the harm? It is when secrecy and lies creep in that the problems start.’
The experienced mistress, who is polyamorous and used to be married herself until her husband tragically died, also says how women react to cheating spouses sometimes depends on their culture.
Gweneth, who meets her lovers through the affairs website IllicitEncounters.com, said: ‘If one of my men has a Latin or Italian wife, they always want to keep our relationship secret and they’re terrified of her finding out.
‘There’s a strong chance all that passion could end up badly if he’s caught and revenge is definitely a possibility – she could poison him, like put laxatives in his coffee.
‘If they’re Spanish or Portuguese, they’ll make him feel guilty.
‘British wives however, tend to have a ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ rule and many British men often tell me it would break their wife’s heart to find out but that if they did, the marriage would still recover.
‘They would simply sweep it under the rug, keep calm and carry on. The stiff upper lip is really a thing.
Gweneth explains that British wives ignore the affairs, Spanish wives make their husbands feel guilty and Italian wives might poison their husbands with ‘laxatives’
Despite seeking out married men, Gweneth insists their decision actually has nothing to do with her and explains that the men are making a conscious choice to be unfaithful
‘Scandinavians tend to be more open-minded.’
As for herself, Gweneth is Dutch and British, but her late dad is French – and never had much of an issue with her preference for love rats.
She said: ‘I’ve always been into married men.
‘I never discuss it with my mum’s side of the family but my dad, being French, was like ‘yeah it’s okay’.
Gweneth is so well known as a mistress that she will often get calls from wives asking if she’s slept with their husbands, even when she hasn’t
Gweneth insists that the French side of her family had a relaxed approach to having multiple partners at once
‘My paternal grandfather was the same way.
‘When I was a teenager, he used to call me a free spirit and once told me, “There are women who are lovers and there are women who are wives”.
‘He wasn’t wrong.’
Gweneth, who has been called a ‘husband stealer’ many times, doesn’t feel guilty about being a mistress – because she’s not the one cheating.
She added: ‘Women I’ve done business with will sometimes find out what I get up to in my spare time, and many of them get upset.
‘Some will call me to ask if their husband has cheated on them with me, even though I’ve never met their partners!
‘If a man cheats with me, it actually has nothing to do with me. These men are making a conscious choice to be unfaithful.
‘But I always ask their wives how they feel, because more often than not, their anger isn’t about the fact I sleep with their men – it’s a more deep-rooted issue.’
Is YOUR partner likely to cheat?
While statistics vary from study to study, according to the Journal of Couple & Relationship Therapy, it’s estimated that 50 to 60 per cent of married men and 45 to 55 per cent of married women engage in extramarital sex at some point in their relationship.
Extramarital sex also takes into account cyber affairs, in which the parties do not have direct physical contact.
According to a study published in The Journal of Sex Research, women are more likely to cheat on their partners between six and 10 years of being together.
Men are likely to stick things out for longer before straying as they’re more likely to cheat after 11 years in a relationship.
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