Written by Amy Beecham
The funeral for murdered teacher Ashling Murphy yesterday following her death on 12 January.
Yesterday thousands of people gathered as Ashling Murphy, the 23-year-old teacher killed while jogging in Tullamore, Ireland last week, was laid to rest.
Murphy’s sister, Amy, paid tribute to her on social media ahead of the funeral, calling her “the light of our lives” in a Facebook post and requesting privacy at her funeral.
“Ashling was the light of our lives and the heart of our family. Sadly, we will lay her to rest tomorrow, Tuesday the 18th of January,” she wrote.
“Our family kindly asks that any musicians attending please bring their instrument and play music at lower town cemetery after mass should you wish.”
On the same afternoon, the Gardaí (Irish police) confirmed in a statement that a 30-year-old male suspect had been arrested and was being detained at Tullamore Garda Station.
Ahead of the funeral mass, held in St Brigid’s Church in Mount Bolus, County Offaly, more than 20 seven-year-old children from the primary school class Murphy taught lined up to form a guard of honour as the funeral processionentered the church to the sound of traditional music.
The children each held a single red rose photos of Murphy’s graduation bearing the words “fly high in the sky” and “our shining light”.
In an emotional tribute, Murphy’s boyfriend, Ryan Casey, described her as “the greatest love of my life”.
“It’s simply not possible to explain what Ashling meant to myself or her family or friends in these few brief words. All I’d like to say in this moment and time is that Ashling was in fact our shining light. She loved her mum Kathleen, her father Ray, her big sister Amy and her big brother Cathal, and all of her family and friends so much,” he said, speaking publicly for the first time since her death.
“She was always there, always willing to help anybody anywhere at any time and always put herself last. She had so many hobbies and talents which all combined to make her the incredible, loving and beautiful person we all were so lucky to know and loved to spend as much time with as possible.
“Ashling was so much more to me than a girlfriend, she was my soulmate, she is my soulmate, she will always be my soulmate. She is the greatest love of my life. I will cherish the last five years we spent together my entire life. I hope that someday, God willing, we can be reunited once more and continue the great plans we had made for each other,” he said.
Murphy’s cousin Rachel O’Shea also read a prayer during the service asking “that the many vigils that took place in memory of Ashling, marking the beginning of an end to violence against women”.
Her death sparked an outpouring of grief, with vigils being held over the weekend across Ireland and the UK. In the wake of the murders of Sarah Everard, Sabina Nessa, Bobbi McLeod and Nicole Smallman and Bibaa Henry, it has also lead to calls for increased action to tackle violence against women.
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