DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE a great sex life with my girlfriend but when we do certain positions I become a flop in bed.

I’m a man of 30 and my partner is 32. We moved in together over lockdown and apart from this one hitch things have been going great.


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I’m embarrassed to say, I hate it when she takes the lead.

If she wants to go on top or do another position where I’m lying down, I just can’t handle it.

It’s either all over in minutes for me or I lose my erection. If I’m in control, it’s fine.

But it’s getting to the stage where I dread going to bed, in case she comes on to me and the sex for her is then a load of rubbish.

DEIDRE SAYS: Certain positions can be more sensitive for men if they have intercourse at a particular angle.

If you are having sex together, you should be able to talk to her about anything. So explain that you like to make it last but sometimes, it is just not possible in a few positions.

Ask her to try some alternative techniques. My support pack called Best Positions For You will suggest other things to try until you find something that suits you both.

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