DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband walked out but has since tried it on with me – and I had no desire for sex with him.

I don’t want to ruin it because there’s a chance I could win him back.

He’s 32 and left me for a colleague two years ago. I’m 29 and a stay-at-home mum.

He keeps in contact with me and the kids. I haven’t had a relationship since.

A couple of weeks ago he came round and told me things weren’t so great for him and his girlfriend and they’d been arguing.

He made a move. I felt angry and flattered at the same time but I didn’t want sex at all. My feelings are gone.

I kissed him but that was all. I said I wasn’t ready but, in truth, I don’t think I can get aroused at the moment. I don’t even feel like pleasuring myself.

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DEIDRE SAYS: It is down to the hurt he’s left you with. But in a way, it may have done you a favour.

Falling back into bed may make him think he can have his cake and eat it.

Take your time over deciding whether your husband is being truthful and only take things further if his relationship is truly over.

Whether it’s with him or somebody else, my support pack called Reviving A Woman’s Sex Drive will help you.

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