DEAR DEIDRE: I AM scared of getting intimate with girls – please help.

I’m a 19-year-old guy and all my friends have had sex.


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But I’m too nervous for this, or even to touch a girl. I get as far as kissing and then freeze.

Every girl I’ve been out with likes me until we try to have sex, and then they dump me.

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It’s embarrassing being a virgin at my age.

I’ve even stopped masturbating because it reminds me how hopeless I am. What can I do?

DEIDRE SAYS: Try not to let yourself get too anxious about this. Everyone has sex in their own time. No hurry.

My support pack, Learning About Relationships, will show you how good relationships work, and why it’s important to ensure you are with a partner who you trust before you take things to a sexual level.

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