DEAR DEIDRE: IN the past fortnight, my boyfriend has gone between being with me then back to his estranged wife three times.

He is 35, I am 27 and we met a few months ago at work. He was going through a separation.

He asked me to move in, which I did.

It lasted two weeks before he said he missed his wife and child, and he was leaving.

He then called me and said he wanted me and he wished I was the mother of his child instead.

He came back to the flat and we had sex.

But then he left again, saying he couldn’t abandon his “family unit”.

The following morning he was back, telling me to move away from him because he was ruining my life.

I have been crying all day.

I love him but I can’t go on like this.

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DEIDRE SAYS: You need to put yourself first.

He can’t have sex with you then go running back to his wife.

He is not being fair – and is also completely disregarding the lockdown rules.

Give him an ultimatum.

He either commits to you, ending his marriage and making arrangements with his wife to jointly care for the child, or you are leaving for good.

My support pack Your Lover Not Free will help you decide whether you would be better off alone.

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