DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVEN’T had sex since my husband had an operation.
I’m a woman of 37 and he is 40. We have both always had high libidos, but a while ago my husband developed sores on his genitals.
I accused him of cheating, but when we went to see the doctor we were both clear of any STI.
The problem was down to a skin issue and he had to have an operation.
Since then, he hasn’t had the same interest in making love. I’ve not even seen his penis since.
He keeps his pants on when we are intimate and he has bought me a sex toy which he thinks can replace him.
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DEIDRE SAYS: He may still be feeling sore or embarrassed that he can’t satisfy you sexually right now, but you need to talk to him about it.
Explain that you love him and you miss the intimacy. Ask him when your sex-life may get back on track.
If his penis isn’t healing easily, suggest that he goes back to his doctor to see what can be done to help.
My support pack Reviving A Man’s Sex Drive may give you both some tips.
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