DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE been cross-dressing privately since my early teens.

My wife of 30 years only recently guessed that I dress as a woman. That happened after she found some of my make-up.

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She hasn’t said anything but I noticed that some of my make-up had been moved and that my clothes have been disturbed in the wardrobe.

I am 67 and my wife is 62.

We have had a long and happy marriage but I have never been able to reconcile it with my cross-dressing.

However many times I have tried to stop, it always eventually floats back into my life.

I know I need to talk to her but I am struggling to find the right words.

DEIDRE SAYS: The need to express your feminine side is part of who you are and won’t change, no matter how your wife reacts.

My support pack Worried About Cross-Dressing? will help you explain all this to her. If she cannot accept that, do not be tempted to say you will stop.

It’s a part of your personality you can’t halt.

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