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I hardly drink, don’t smoke and take care of my appearance.

But when it comes to the bedroom department, I’m letting the side down. 

I can get an erection without any problem but have started to suffer with delayed ejaculation which means sex goes on for ages, even after my partner has orgasmed and more often than not I give up but feel frustrated.

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I’ve recently had a whole gamut of medical checks and everything came back fine.

I’ve never had this issue before. Please help.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Delayed ejaculation can suddenly start after previously having no problems and can happen in all sexual situations or only some – perhaps you can ejaculate when masturbating but not during sex.

 When it only happens in certain situations, there’s often a psychological cause.

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