‘My flatmate wants me to bonk his girl while he watches – but I don’t fancy her’

My good-looking flatmate and his girlfriend are bisexual and sexually adventurous. Recently he suggested I have sex with his girl, while he watches.

But I don’t fancy her and can’t imagine anything worse than seeing him aroused. I’m scared to say no in case it causes an awkward atmosphere, or I look uncool.

JANE SAYS: Tell your flatmate that free love isn’t your thing. He may be presenting this as a treat, but he sounds predatory and untrustworthy.

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Do not allow this pair to lure you in or get you involved in any sexual activity that feels wrong. Is it time to start looking for a new place to live? I think it is.

Wanted for my money

My lover is only around when I’ve got cash to spend.

My work is up and down. Some months I earn enough to get by. Other times I am proper minted.

It hurts that she flutters around me like a moth to a flame when I have dosh to splash.

She brazenly rings me every day to ask me how I’m doing (i.e. how much I’m earning) and then swoops when I reveal I’ve hit the jackpot. She knows that she’ll be in for hotel breaks, cocktails, and gifts all the way.

The rest of the time she hangs out with her friends, and I barely see her.

JANE SAYS: You work hard and are not obliged to share your wealth with anyone.

You may have known your girl for a while, and shared some fun times in the past, but she is not your responsibility. Not only is she a user and an opportunist, but she doesn’t have any respect for you or your money.

What about saving for a rainy day? What about saving for the future so that your life isn’t quite so up and down?

I suggest you start as you mean to go on. Unless you break this pattern, then this leech is going to bleed you dry forever.

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