DEAR DEIDRE: MUM and Dad are splitting up and I can’t bear it.

Mum’s heartbroken and I don’t want to be in the same room as Dad any more. He’s caused this.


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I’m a guy of 16. My parents argue sometimes, but doesn’t everyone?

Dad’s not a big party animal and Mum would often go out with friends without him. Then he recently started going to the pub with a neighbour – another man, who is divorced.

Out of the blue he came back from the pub and told Mum he doesn’t love her. He left to go round to the neighbour’s, leaving Mum crying.

She confided in me there have been times she wanted to leave but hasn’t.

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She even told me they had a good sex life.

I don’t want to get involved in their mess but I am so angry.

DEIDRE SAYS: It does sound like the neighbour encouraged your dad to say he wants to leave. But you can’t be certain of that.

They might have been unhappy for some time.

It is difficult to judge other people’s relationships, even when you are close to them.

Tell your parents you can’t be involved in their disputes and they shouldn’t expect you to act as their sounding board.

Instead, encourage them to get some couples’ counselling via relate.org.uk. You can find emotional support via themix.org.uk, who help anyone under the age of 25.

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